Valentines Day is Coming

Having someone to celebrate Valentines day is a nice thing. I find myself without again this year.

I hear some people whining about it but it doesn't really bother me in the least. I'm comfortable by myself, always have been for the most part.

I never needed a woman to make me feel whole so that makes me rare in a way.

I've never had any trouble getting a girlfriend, and I could be married if I wanted to be and was like the majority of people, getting married and having kids because they think it's the right thing and normal thing to do.

I don't and never have felt that way about it though.

I believe in love, real love, having the kind of person you can't and don't want to live without.

So many people are with people by default.

Not me, I have the odd fling here and there but I remain single for the most part for "her", I know she's out there, somewhere.

I won't settle for less than what I really want.

She doesn't have to be a bombshell, it's chemistry and a connection of the spirit I think.

I don't mind going to my grave single if that's what I have to do.

I won't get into a long term relationship with any less than what I really want, if I do then she might pass me by because I'm with someone, and I wouldn't want that happening now would I?